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Greetings |
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When
an American says hello, some Koreans may respond with
just a smile. |
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Americans
prefer exchanging verbal greetings; saying "Hello."
or waving their hands. They may feel slightly bewildered
by receiving only a smile in return. |
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To
see the case of smiling |
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Using
the index finger to beckon someone |
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Americans
commonly use an upturned index finger to beckon someone.
Koreans use their index finger only when beckoning
animals, never to beckon a person. Koreans will beckon
other persons by waving the whole hand with the finger
pointing downward. (if the finger pointing upward,
it means to go or go out and even get out of here. |
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No
smoking in front of elders |
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in
Corea, one should never smoke in front of an elder
person, even if the older person is smoking; it is
considered rude. |
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Many
Americans who are prone to do so without being aware
that their action can give offese to Koreans in certain
settings. |
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Chewing
Gum |
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It
is common for Americans to chew gum in social situations:
while conversing, playing sports, or even teaching. |
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To
Koreans, however, it appears quite rude when they
chew gum while talking, not that Koreans do not chew
gum; it is just that they generally do so much more
discreetly. |
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Shake
hands too firmly |
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American
men often shake hands firmly as a sign of confidence,
sincerity or friendship. At the very least, they expect
some pressure in the grip of their couterparts. |
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A
traditonal Korean greeting is accomplished with a
bow, rather than a handshake. Americans should be
careful not to be overzealous in shaking hands with
Koreans. |
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Men's
shaking hands too long or limply |
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Between
men, a handshake that lasts too long may make an American
feel uncomfortable while it is acceptable. Americans
are taught a firm, but brief handshake indicates sincerity
and self-confidence, while a limp handshake gives
the opposite impression. On the other hand, Americans
do not consider a long or limp shandshake from a woman
to be negative. |
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Keep
hands in pocket while speaking |
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This
casual posture is common among Americans. It indicates
a feelig of being at ease. |
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For
Koreans, on the other hand, especially for older people,
it may appear as if the other person is being disrespectful,
isn't really listening or doesn't care what the speaker
is saying. |
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Use
one hand when giving or receiving something |
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Americans
usually use one hand when giving or receiving something.
in Corea, young people show respect for an elder by
using two hands to give or receive. A somewhat lesser
degree of respect is sometimes appropriate and is
expressed by extending one hand to give or receive
something while the free hand is either tucked under
the extended arm or grips the extended wrist. To simply
extend one hand to elders while the other hand is
free is engaged in another activity is considered
rude in Corea. |
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