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Different
Customs between Korea & America |
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Avoiding
eye contact during a conversation |
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Koreans
tend to regard it as impolite to stare directly at
someone, especially at the person who is older. For
example, when a Korean student is being scolded by
his teacher, he will look down to show he knows he
has misbehaved. |
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To
Americans, however, avoiding eye contact implies lack
of interest, respect or honesty. They see it as a signal
that the other person is refusing to listen or simply
is not interested in what the speaker is saying. |
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Men's
wearing earing |
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As
a style carried over from Europe, the wearing of earings
by men has its place in Americans pop culture, but
it is generally viewed as strange by Koreans. |
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Spit
in public |
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On
the streets in Corea, you may be surprised to see
men spitting in a waste basket or even on the road.
This habit is practiced by a minority of people and
most Koreans do not consider it to be polite. Americans
find this very disagreeable. |
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Men
seem to unkind to woman |
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Largely
due to Confucianism, Korea is a male-dominated society.
Although it's changing, even to this day Americans
are surprised to see that when a young couple enters
a restaurant, the man often doesn't open the door
for the woman. Sometimes, he will even go first! Because
of the movement for sexual equality, chivalry isn't
what it used to be in the U.S., but Americans still
favor the practice of ladies first. |
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Children's
making noises in public |
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in
Corea, you can see children running aroudn and making
noises in public places such as restaurants, airports,
or hotel lobbies as if the places wer playgrounds.
Some parents scold them, but most are indifferent
to how their children are disturbing others. In fact,
most Koreans do not seem to be bothered in the least
by children's behaving in this manner. |
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Americans,
on the other hand, think children should be strictly
controlled in public by their parents. |
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Praising
their family members in public |
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Americans
like to praise their family members in public; however,
Koreans generally do not because they think it is
a virtue not to overtly praise their family. For example,
they will not praise theri spouses in public for theri
cooking or their beauty or their children for doing
well in school. |
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Wearing
sports shoes while wearing a suit |
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Americans,
especially female professionals in business, often
wear sports shoes when commuting, and exchang to dress
shoes at the office. They do so because sports shoes
are more comfortable to walk in. |
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Wearing
shorts or half-cut shirts |
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Americans
feel comfortable wearing shorts or half-cut shirts
in many situations: at a casual party, in a classroom
or outside. |
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If
you wear them in Corea, you will be focused by accusing
stares. |
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Not
wearing a shirt while watching a match or jogging
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It
is acceptable for Americans to take off their shirts
in a baseball game or in the city park. However, Koreans
dislike seeing half naked men in those places. |
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Holding
a pen or pensil in their mouth |
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Americans
frequently chew aor suck on writing instruments while
listening to a lecture or presentation or while thinking.
It seems to convey s sense of deep concentration,
but it looks rather unrefined and childlike to Koreans. |
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